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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Pull your pants down!

I shook my head to be sure that's what I heard. He said, "that's right, get over my knee." I saw he had the paddle in hand, the same paddle I had bought to reinforce good behavior from the kids. He firmly pulled me over his knee and began....

((Swat)) Ouch

((Swat)) Ouch...squirm

((Swat)) squirm...whimper

((Swat)) Oh my gosh...I'm dying!

I sat up and stopped him, grabbing him around the neck and and hugging him tightly. He comforted me for a moment and lectured me a bit. I really had not done anything, well, except for our entire marriage's worth of disrespecting and defying him. He then said,

"You don't decide when we're done! I decide when we're done! And for that, you are getting 5 more!"

He commenced with 5 more that were harder than the first 4 and trust me, I didn't wiggle or squirm. I took it, because I had earned it for being defiant (which I'm super great at) and I knew he was perfecting his new role as HOH!

Afterwards, he held me, comforted me, loved me and talked to me. He asked me about my feelings and told me his. WE WERE CONNECTING for the first time EVER! The feelings were all over the place, but amazing! I knew then and there that we had entered the DD lifestyle and there was no turning back.

I had always wondered what made the "relatives" marriage so amazing. What was their secret? They had their share of family and financial issues. But, they always seemed so strong! Now, I knew! The feelings and response after the spanking shocked us both. I can honestly say that the first spanking changed everything for us and my feelings of respect, admiration and love for my HOH were stronger than ever!


  1. Oh wow! What a way to start it! Yeah, the spankings hurt! But the communication, the connecting, those feelings of new respect and his of cherishing...that's what makes it so worth it! Know that as you go along this journey I'm always here for ya if you ever need anything! Hugs!

    Kay :)

  2. When my wife and I began dating, attitudes toward spanking were very different than they are these days. Everybody knew even old enough to marry young ladies sometimes got spanked by their parents. Because it wasn't any big secret, mothers were known to drop less that subtle hints in the presence of others about a daughter either needing to be or having been recently spanked.

    After my wife's mother opened the door with one such comment, we began an ongoing discussion. As a result, my wife and I discovered we agreed there were times when women needed to be put over a man's knee and spanked. Subsequently, during the course of our dating, we arrived at one of those times. We talked about it and agreed the time had come. My wife was thoroughly cooperative as I positioned her over my knee. Later, she confessed to secretly hoping I'd pull down her panties. After it was over, she knew she'd found the man she would marry.

    Both being relative novices, neither of us understood before the fact how that spanking would deepen our relationship. It wasn't sexual as much as it was spiritual. On our wedding day, my mother-in-law asked her daughter what was wrong. It seems my wife's calmness unnerved her. That night, my wife said she told her mother that she felt thoroughly comfortable with her choice. We've been together ever since.